Hello, Beauties!!!

It’s been a while. I know. I have a juicy question for you today from Slate magazine. Let’s jump right into it. The question reads:

My husband has a history of cheating. Last year I found conclusive proof that he had yearslong sexual relationships with two women and inappropriate relationships with several more. We separated for several months but never stopped sleeping together. He eventually moved back home. We have attended counseling. We are trying to make things work.

Then a position opened up unexpectedly with my husband’s employer, and lo and behold, one of the women he carried on with was hired to work closely with him by sheer coincidence. It should be said that his inappropriate relationships and one of the two sexual affairs were with co-workers from previous jobs. I want to believe that it really is coincidence, but I’m struggling very much with that.


Dear LW,

Either way, your husband is still untrustworthy. Does it really matter if it was a coincidence or not? He has disrespected you and your marriage repeatedly. I’m more worried about you. Why have you continued to put up with this disgusting behavior? He has put you and your health at risk from being promiscuous and unfaithful. It seems as though you don’t know how many women he has cheated on you with, which is scary. To be honest, he’ll never tell you. While you were separated, you kept sleeping with him? Why??? I don’t understand.

It seems to me, you have low self-esteem and dependency issues. If that is the case, you should seek therapy… apart from your husband. YOU need to work on YOU. Marriage counseling is great, but he may be a sex addict. Addiction is a whole different ball game. Are you sure you want to go down this road? I wouldn’t. I’d divorce him and not look back. Love is not this hard or painful.

Love yourself.

~Jana Leigh

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